...But women talk about sex more freely & often than men do. Plus they do prioritise it a lot more than men do. I've come across men who would still agree to marry a woman whose vagina had a defect that would impair the enjoyment of sex with/for her, but I've not com across a woman who would go on with a wedding with her fiance if she found out he was impotent, no matter what they've bn thru.
It appears to be a hormonal issue. I know transgendered people going in both directions. The male-to-females say their libido dropped significantly after going on female hormones and/or androgen blockers. Female-to-males have said they think about sex all the time after going on testosterone. Ain't biology fascinating?