especially those who hurt you deeply... easier said than done

I really don't know what to say...forgiving and forgetting it's the same for me....I can't forget, so doesn't it mean that I can't forgive?

Thank God the Bible doesn't say we must forget.

tho its hard to forget that you have forgiven the person who have caused u pain.hell always be in he memories you have cried in.but love is the only miracle or the true love is only the miracle in which you forgive and forget at the same moment when he/she comes and just shed a tear ONLY ONE and there goes all the blood and pain.

Because even though you forgive you never truely forget.

I would rather forget than forgive

not allways...

To forgive means to let go of the incident (i.e. forget the incident). To forget the incident doesn't mean you forgive the person of the hurt he/she has brought to you. it just means that you can't point out a single incdient

I'd sooner forget why I was mad at you and go back to being buddies than forgive you and go back to being buddies

i can forgive, but hardly to forget
but if u want to be happy .. also u should to learn to forget