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Sickened: The True Story of a Lost Childhood by Julie Gregory

Sickened: The True Story of a Lost Childhood

Julie Gregory

Julie Gregory
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A young girl is perched on the cold chrome of yet another doctor’s examining table, missing yet another day of school. Just twelve, she’s tall, skinny, and weak. It’s four o’clock, and she hasn’t been allowed to eat anything all day. Her mother, on the other hand, seems curiously excited. She's about to suggest open-heart surgery on her child to "get to the bottom of this." She checks her teeth for lipstick and, as the doctor enters, shoots the girl a warning gla... (show more)

A young girl is perched on the cold chrome of yet another doctor’s examining table, missing yet another day of school. Just twelve, she’s tall, skinny, and weak. It’s four o’clock, and she hasn’t been allowed to eat anything all day. Her mother, on the other hand, seems curiously excited. She's about to suggest open-heart surgery on her child to "get to the bottom of this." She checks her teeth for lipstick and, as the doctor enters, shoots the girl a warning glance. This child will not ruin her plans.

Sickened

From early childhood, Julie Gregory was continually X-rayed, medicated, and operated on—in the vain pursuit of an illness that was created in her mother’s mind. Munchausen by proxy (MBP) is the world’s most hidden and dangerous form of child abuse, in which the caretaker—almost always the mother—invents or induces symptoms in her child because she craves the attention of medical professionals. Many MBP children die, but Julie Gregory not only survived, she escaped the powerful orbit of her mother's madness and rebuilt her identity as a vibrant, healthy young woman.

Sickened is a remarkable memoir that speaks in an original and distinctive Midwestern voice, rising to indelible scenes in prose of scathing beauty and fierce humor. Punctuated with Julie's actual medical records, it re-creates the bizarre cocoon of her family's isolated double-wide trailer, their wild shopping sprees and gun-waving confrontations, the astonishing naïveté of medical professionals and social workers. It also exposes the twisted bonds of terror and love that roped Julie's family together—including the love that made a child willing to sacrifice herself to win her mother's happiness.

The realization that the sickness lay in her mother, not in herself, would not come to Julie until adulthood. But when it did, it would strike like lightning. Through her painful metamorphosis, she discovered the courage to save her own life—and, ultimately, the life of the girl her mother had found to replace her. Sickened takes us to new places in the human heart and spirit. It is an unforgettable story, unforgettably told.

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Carla
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Carla Eliza, 4 months ago

Quote-leftWell written, moving and seriously shocking, this is a great book for anyone working in the care or mental health sector. It looks at Munchousen by proxi, the condition where sufferers are drawn to get attention from medical profesionals at any cost, including, in the case of this story, using your own child and inventing stories about cancer and enducing sickness.
Not for the faint hearted as it is a true story which goes into detail of the abuse a young child faces and the effects of that abuse on her life as an adult. An excellent eye opening book but read with some caution.Quote-right

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Emma Fahlén, about 1 year ago

Quote-leftMamma sa att jag var sjuk. När man jobbar inom barnsjukvården blir man lite rädd när man läser sånt här.Quote-right

Sarah
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Sarah Hallewell, 1 day ago

Quote-leftA story of a mother who suffers from Munchousen By Proxy and abuses her child in a way that although may not be as physical as most abuse cases it is mentally abusive to the author and ironically although her mother was always taking her to the doctor she was not getting better she was being made worse by her mothers intention.

Its a gripping read that draws attention to the serious severity of this disease.Quote-right

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Facebook User, 1 day ago

Quote-leftVery disturbing. Munchausen's by proxy is such a complicated thing, because it's so hard to catch someone with it. I couldn't put this book down and highly recommend it, especially to those who work with children. The author tried to tell numerous people about what was going on, and always she was dismissed as having an overactive imagination, etc. While I understand where these people are coming from, it also highlights two issues: One is the lack of communication between medical professionals about a patient, and two is the amount that we discredit most of what children say, even when there is truth to it.Quote-right

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Vanessa Nemeth, 1 day ago

Quote-leftI liked it but I was disappointed that the book never went into depth as to what kind of action she took against her mother and what the results were in the end? Also wondering if she saved that little girl in the end? Ending was very stunted.Quote-right

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Kristen Hores Noonan, 3 days ago

Quote-leftAnd I thought MY family was f-ed up!!! The poor thing! It's amazing she hasn't committed suicide, let alone write an amazing book.Quote-right

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Facebook User, 7 days ago

Quote-leftGood read...very sad that this goes on but it is a good book to be aware off if you work with children!Quote-right

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Bridget Whitlow, about 1 month ago

Quote-leftThis is a superfast read - very well written and disturbing account of the author's abusive upbringing and her process to find her way out of it. It's also a very informative, and needed, first hand narrative of Munchausen by proxy syndrome.Quote-right

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Helen Kirsty Maclean, about 1 month ago

Quote-lefti've read it before, and i'mnot sure i should have jst re-read it. a sad tale that is quite disturbing. really interesting though, not a form of sbuse we would commonly recoginse so fascinating and worthwhile to share her traumatic talesQuote-right

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Sabrina Marie, about 1 month ago

Quote-leftWhile I believe her 100%, all I kept thinking was "unbelievable" the whole time. So disturbing to think a mother could ever subject her child to this, and someone didn't pick up on it. Sad ending I thought as well, she doesn't seem to rise above her beginnings, beyond making the decision to prosecute her mother.Quote-right

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