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Love Is a Mix Tape: Life and Loss, One Song at a Time by Rob Sheffield

Love Is a Mix Tape: Life and Loss, One Song at a Time

Rob Sheffield

Rob Sheffield
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What Is love? Great minds have been grappling with this question throughout the ages, and in the modern era, they have come up with many different answers. According to Western philosopher Pat Benatar, love is a battlefield. Her paisan Frank Sinatra would add the corollary that love is a tender trap. Love hurts. Love stinks. Love bites, love bleeds, love is the drug. The troubadours of our times agree: They want to know what love is, and they want you to show them. But the answer is simple: L... (show more)

What Is love? Great minds have been grappling with this question throughout the ages, and in the modern era, they have come up with many different answers. According to Western philosopher Pat Benatar, love is a battlefield. Her paisan Frank Sinatra would add the corollary that love is a tender trap. Love hurts. Love stinks. Love bites, love bleeds, love is the drug. The troubadours of our times agree: They want to know what love is, and they want you to show them. But the answer is simple: Love is a mix tape.

In the 1990s, when “alternative” was suddenly mainstream, bands like Pearl Jam and Pavement, Nirvana and R.E.M.—bands that a year before would have been too weird for MTV- were MTV. It was the decade of Kurt Cobain and Shania Twain and Taylor Dayne, a time that ended all too soon. The boundaries of American culture were exploding, and music was leading the way.

It was also when a shy music geek named Rob Sheffield met a hell-raising Appalachian punk-rock girl named Renée, who was way too cool for him but fell in love with him anyway. He was tall. She was short. He was shy. She was a social butterfly. She was the only one who laughed at his jokes when they were so bad, and they were always bad. They had nothing in common except that they both loved music. Music brought them together and kept them together. And it was music that would help Rob through a sudden, unfathomable loss.

In Love Is a Mix Tape, Rob, now a writer for Rolling Stone, uses the songs on fifteen mix tapes to tell the story of his brief time with Renée. From Elvis to Missy Elliott, the Rolling Stones to Yo La Tengo, the songs on these tapes make up the soundtrack to their lives.

Rob Sheffield isn’t a musician, he’s a writer, and Love Is a Mix Tape isn’t a love song- but it might as well be. This is Rob’s tribute to music, to the decade that shaped him, but most of all to one unforgettable woman. (show less)

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Nicole
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Nicole Cassidy, 6 months ago

Quote-leftThis was a great book. I really like how he associated music and his life. It's really heartbreaking at the end, but you can tellt his was a really awesome guy, and I loved reading this.Quote-right

Brandon
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Brandon Miller, 9 months ago

Quote-leftNormally I would avoid these overt gestures for culture relevance (read: disposable literature) like the plague, but I'm a sucker and bought the book because of the title. I do, in fact, agree that for me, love is a mix tape. Sheffield masterfully weaves a narrative of falling in love with a girl, growing together, and parting in death all through the vehicle of shared musical experience. And yes, this is a memoir about a thirty-one year-old man losing his wife--and it hits just as hard as you'd expect. Reminds me of "Perks Of Being A Wallflower," so I'd recommend it to all of us recovering awkward emo boys...Quote-right

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Facebook User, about 10 hours ago

Quote-leftAn extremely heartbreaking (true story) about the writer's music-loving, soul shaking wife who not only changed his entire world but brought so much into everyone else's. One of the only books I ever read in one sitting. It hit close to home and haunted me for weeks after... maybe even a little still.Quote-right

Mary
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Mary O'Sullivan, 2 days ago

Quote-lefta great read, sometimes a bit overly sentimental, but he did suffer a big loss that could ruin a lesser person, recommendedQuote-right

Jennifer
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Jennifer Tanner McGuire, 7 days ago

Quote-leftI grabbed this book while thrifting without reading the back cover and took it with me on a recent road trip. It was a quick but powerful read and I really loved it.Quote-right

Alicia
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Alicia Berry Sawyer, 16 days ago

Quote-leftI expected more since I loved mix tapes. I just didn't care about the main character at all.Quote-right

Blayze
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Facebook User, 17 days ago

Quote-leftA heart-warming and emotional memoir of lost, but never forgotten love and the music and mix tapes that keeps the passed alive.

Each chapter starts with a mix tape play list of the songs that meant something from that particular period of Rob Sheffield (Rolling Stone) life at the time. This is a fantastic book that will remind you of music once/still loved and bring you close up to a couples time together surrounded by their second love music.Quote-right

Maura
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Maura Folan, 23 days ago

Quote-leftReally enjoyed this book! I'm of generation Mix-tape and appreciated the use of this meaningful medium to tell an emotional story.Quote-right

Rick
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Rick Fuss, 24 days ago

Quote-left"Love Is A Mix Tape: Life And Loss, One Song At A Time" is a funny, charming and heartbreaking memoir by Rolling Stone editor and occasional VH-1 talking head Rob Sheffield. Sheffield tells the tale of his two loves - one love is Renee, a country gal into punk and indie rock; the other is music. Both love stories are tightly intertwined. Music is what brought them together (they bonded over the band Big Star) and kept them together (their first dance at their wedding was to a Big Star song). And ultimately, music is what helped Rob heal after Renee died suddenly and unexpectedly of a pulmonary embolism at the age of 31.

Each chapter of the book begins with a tracklist to an actual mix tape (made by either Rob or Renee) that served as the soundtrack to that particular chapter in Rob's life. As someone who associates certain songs with certain points in my life, this was something that I strongly connected with. Not since Nick Hornby's "High Fidelity" have I identified with a book so strongly. "Love Is A Mix Tape" is a quick, engaging read that I didn't want to put down (admittedly I had to put it down a few times when the sad parts got a little too sad).Quote-right

Ted
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Facebook User, 25 days ago

Quote-leftI hope this little book gets some play. Sheffield is talented and his story is terrific. Really affecting and well-told. Worth a read.Quote-right

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