Wow, I read the book with in a 24 hour period. I was really good it did not just show me what I was doing wrong, it made me realized that some of ... (show more)
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.
He's afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he's intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.
Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth... (show more)
For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.
He's afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he's intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.
Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth may be He's just not that into you.
Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel.
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU -- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.
Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mind-sets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you."
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe He's just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is. (show less)
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Not at all what I thought it would be. I must admit I did expect a bit of a story but this is not what the book is about at all...
I always prefer... (show more)
Not at all what I thought it would be. I must admit I did expect a bit of a story but this is not what the book is about at all...
I always prefer to read the book before I see the movie so I thought I would do likewise with this but it is not what I expected at all...
For what it is, it is written well, straight to the point and very clear. Sometimes it may be a little to blunt, particularly if you are dealing with some of the issues that the book approaches but I havnt read any 'self-help' books before so maybe that is how they are written.
The book is a very short read and can be done in a few hours at most. I think some of the activities can be helpful at identifing what is important to you but others seem pointless... (show less)
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I read this in one sitting...its all common sense really. In summary - don't date a man who: (1) doesn't ask you out on a date...men run the world, they are NOT too shy to ask you out if they are into you, (2) doesn't return your calls...this mean's he's not thinking of you at all, (3) is a jerk...you have one asshole already, you don't need another one, (4) is in a relationship...don't share yourself, (5) is married, (6) is not looking for a relationship...he means he's not looking for a rel... (show more)
I read this in one sitting...its all common sense really. In summary - don't date a man who: (1) doesn't ask you out on a date...men run the world, they are NOT too shy to ask you out if they are into you, (2) doesn't return your calls...this mean's he's not thinking of you at all, (3) is a jerk...you have one asshole already, you don't need another one, (4) is in a relationship...don't share yourself, (5) is married, (6) is not looking for a relationship...he means he's not looking for a relationship with YOU!, (7) just wants to sleep with you...a man WILL ruin a friendship just for sex, (8) doesn't want to get physical with you, (8) he doesn't make you happy...reading this, it does make you think, yeah, he was just not that into me, and as the authors say, if a woman can just admit that, and move on, there will be no stopping her :-) (show less)
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For the most part, this book just pissed me off. I guess it's good for a woman who really doesn't have a clue about dating or relationships, but it will only make women overanalyze every single thing a guy does or does not do. If a man doesn't live up to the standards in this book (like say, he doesn't return a phone call promptly) then a potentially nice guy is dissed because a girl read that if he doesn't call you back then he really isn't into you. Yes, of course, if a guy likes you... he... (show more)
For the most part, this book just pissed me off. I guess it's good for a woman who really doesn't have a clue about dating or relationships, but it will only make women overanalyze every single thing a guy does or does not do. If a man doesn't live up to the standards in this book (like say, he doesn't return a phone call promptly) then a potentially nice guy is dissed because a girl read that if he doesn't call you back then he really isn't into you. Yes, of course, if a guy likes you... he will call... but life happens and people shouldn't create unrealistic goals for the opposite sex. No one is perfect. On the other hand, this book is great for someone who really is in a bad relationship and just needs to hear those words, "He's Just Not That Into You". Otherwise, it's better left on the bookshelves. A woman is just as capable of having any of the character traits in this book... enough of the male bashing already! (show less)
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This book gives a very realistic, straight-to-the-point type of approach of appraising the type men that women all over the world, are currently "dating", these days.
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Which do you think is better - the book or the movie?
He's Just Not that Into You is a pretty incredible movie... and book! I would almost always say book versions are better than movies, but this time, I'm torn.
Which do you think was better?
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