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Part V of Vignette: The End is Just the Beginning
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| Language: | English |
| Tags: | domestic violence, self preservation, forgiveness |
| Description: | Part V of Vignette: The End is Just the Beginning Which path? The only one that would allow both the girl and the Prince to be free from one another forever. The path was a painful one, a humiliating one, but it seemed the only one. The Prince would recover quickly as the girl did not mean much to him. The girl, however, would have to take time to heal. Regardless of what people told her about being better off without him, the words she heard were mere psychobabble and did not nothing to mend her soul. These well wishers were not present during the moments of private conversation between the prince and the girl when everything and anything could be discussed between the two. Full disclosures were made between the couple. Uninhibited laughter between the Prince and the girl filled the girl's soul with a happiness that she never knew could exist within her. Also, there were those golden moments of quiet silence between the Prince and the girl...nothing needed to spoken as the silence in and of itself was as real and important and as comfortable as the most tangible of all acts of love. The girl also found something in this Prince that made him more significant to her than anything else; his ability to talk about meaningful things and to open his mind up to new ideas. And, conversely, his ability to sway the girl into other ways of thinking. This incredible ability to communicate is the heart of it all. This incredible abiility to communicate is real intimacy. For a very long time the girl thought intimacy was about having sex, then she found that finding that depth in another human, and allowing that same human to find the depth within her, exceeded all expectations. It was wonderful....but, too, it was very frightening. Many prominent psychologists from different schools of thought say that all human beings want to be validated; to be known. Perhaps. Perhaps not. Then there are others who are terrified to be known, even to themselves. But, then one day we wake up, come to face ourselves...we find that we no longer want to be around people, even peripherally, who act in ways reminiscent of adolescent behavior...the kind of people who go through one's personal information, such as an address book, and unbeknownst to the person (until days after the fact) she finds out that there are "friends" who will use ill gained personal information as a way to create dramatic situations and play games by getting in contact with people under the guise of...well, under the guise of prank calling, and God only knows what else. At that moment one realizes that she needn't be around this behavior and the people who exhibit such behavior, for the sake of saving face in the name of a friendship, a "friendship" reminiscent of jr. high school game playing but with much greater consequences. But, this is another blog in and of itself. How, then, does this girl from Part I's Vignette go from falling in deep love to, in a period of four short story lines, realizing that the Prince and the girl could not survive as a couple. The girl loved him, she loved him very much and trusted him beyond anyone else she had ever known in this world.. The Prince hated the girl---she was but a joke to him. How does a person, the girl in this case, not see the reality? How could she be so innocent in her perceptions about love? The how, I guess, is not important --- what is important is that she will not give up the promise that one day she might meet not an idealized prince, but a realistic man, who will understand her personality; her internal landscape, and wonderfully, she will be honored enough to understand his. There is no timeline for when this will happen, but the beauty is that through it all she believes that not only the authenticity of love does exist, but that it exists as the core of the human experience. The Prince will find his princess. If the girl knows him as she thinks she does, then she believes that he will find the girl who will fulfill him in the way he needs. He will find his princess and she will infuse in him that feeling of comfort that he so longs for. He is a good prince, he just needs to find a good princess. The girl may not find a prince, but that is okay, because the girl is going to find herself. And, so in the end, both the prince and the girl will live happily ever after, just in separate worlds. |
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