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Don't Be a Slut

Everything I wish I had known in my 20's about sex, self-respect and what not to do

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Url:http://dont-be-a-slut.blogspot.com
Author(s):Anita Maria Taylor
Language:English
Tags:Sex, Relationships, Love
Description:When I was in my twenties, I slept with way too many men, for all the wrong reasons, and it really didn't feel all that good. (Ok, sometimes it felt good physically. Sometimes.) That's why I started this blog, Don't Be a Slut. It's everything I wish I had known in my twenties about sex and relationships and what not to do.
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Popularity:153 Followers

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Before I get back to the past, a life update
I'm sensitive to the fact that this blog is called "Don't Be a Slut," and that the implied promise is that I will talk about love, sex, heartbreak and relationships. But before I can get back to wr...more
2009-10-31
2 like it:
Marilyn Campiz Anita Maria Taylor

First Blogiversary
It's my first blogiversary.One year ago today, early in the morning, I sat down and wrote my first post.And I'm so glad I did.When I started my blog, I had no idea that I would reveal as much as I ...more
2009-10-26
2 like it:
Marilyn Campiz Anita Maria Taylor

Number Two
I got over Latin Muslim quickly. A week and a half after our jailhouse breakup, I had a new instant boyfriend, just add water.Let's just call him Number Two. He was a security guard at Wawa, the co...more
2009-10-08
1 like it:
Anita Maria Taylor

Interview, Awards and Blog Love
Over the last couple of months, I've been silently bathing in the glow of blog love. I didn't want to interrupt my Virginity Diaries, so I saved it all up to share with you once I wrapped up that c...more
2009-10-06
2 like it:
Marilyn Campiz Anita Maria Taylor

Is it the Right Time for the First Time?
I was thinking I had waxed as philosophically as I could about my Virginity Diaries ... when duh, I realized I left out the most obvious lesson learned:There is no rush, and it should feel good.My ...more
2009-10-01
1 like it:
Anita Maria Taylor

College Ain't Shangri-La
Whenever I turn on TV and see Black People Tryin' to Make a Difference, much effort is devoted to making sure black kids make it to college. But in all our Let's-Get-Our-Kids-to-College fervor, we ...more
2009-09-29
2 like it:
Marilyn Campiz Anita Maria Taylor

The Power is in the Present
The biggest lesson that I learned from my Virginity diaries is that I've been holding a grudge against the girl I was half a lifetime ago. I've been secretly believing that 19 was the age when Ever...more
2009-09-27
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Anita Maria Taylor

And That Was That
The day after New Year's Day, I decided it was over between me and Latin Muslim. He stood me up on Christmas, and then again on New Year's.After one last no-phone-call too many, I got the message.H...more
2009-09-25
1 like it:
Anita Maria Taylor

Shame, Shame, Shame
Entangling myself with Dollar the Psychic wasn't the only thing I did in the days after I lost my virginity. I also fell head over heels in love with Josephine Baker. And I decided to emulate her b...more
2009-09-22
1 like it:
Anita Maria Taylor

Abusive Relationship
Within days of losing my virginity to Latin Muslim, the abuse began. It lasted nine years. It left thick, traumatic scars. It cost tens of thousands of dollars. And Latin Muslim wasn't the abuser.T...more
2009-09-16
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Marilyn Campiz Colyns Agboju Anita Maria Taylor

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Anita Maria TaylorSep 9

My first in-depth Don't Be a Slut interview. Why I started writing about my sex life and lessons learned along the way http://bit.ly/4kBxvI
 

Lex DrasAug 1

AMT,

I read your "Dark College Years" post. WOW. If you EVER need to talk about this experience in depth, just hit me up... I'll be there! I'll be following you. Email me at my page.
 

Shamsul Huda MishuJun 29

Hi Anita,

i am now following ur blog with a 5-star rating.

u can do the same for me.

u will find my blog at
http://apps.facebook.com/blognetworks/blog/effective_communication_skill/

and/or

http://effective-communicationskill.blogspot.com/

thanks and regards
 

Pija MizanJun 12

i really love reading your blog.there's so much lesson to be learned =)
i linked your blog already anita =)
here's mine
http://www.callmemanje.blogspot.com/
 

Greg WilliamsApr 29

Thank you for the comments about Designing Success. I am not quite sure how I discovered your blog but watch for my daughters to soon be followers. There are certain things where Dad's not the best source for advice.
 

Facebook UserApr 24

Thanks for the comments. Love yours too xx
 

Simone GrantApr 22

I'm so glad I found you.
 

Ro HoApr 20

Thank you for such a wonderful blog, Anita Maria! I follow you on Twitter!!
 

Facebook UserApr 15

thanks for following http://apps.facebook.com/blognetworks/blog/pajamas_coffee/ - i am now following you too! :)
 

Melody Denise ReedApr 13

Thanks for the support! I'm going to follow you here and on blogger. :)
 
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