I’m back in New York. A couple of my Twitter followers and FBC readers contacted me to ask if I hooked up with anyone while I was in Texas. Nope. I haven’t had sex (with another person) since last summer. Yep. It’s been something...

I like looking at nude men. I like the firmness of their bodies, and I think it’s great their contours are so different from women’s. If I’m really into a guy and we’re having sex for the...

I’m back and I need to get laid. I haven’t had a penis tightly rubbing inside me since those hot summer nights with the tall Euro dude. Yep, my warm chocolate center hasn’t had a non-plastic...

Bro and I agree that people get married for a myriad of reasons: to have children, for health insurance, to be sure someone will take care of them when they get older, fear of being alone, they...

Okay, I thought I’d do something different for this week’s Manly Monday. A bunch of straight women email me privately to ask questions about sex toys, but I’m surprised heterosexual guys...

The Washingtonienne gave me gonorrhea – figuratively, not technically speaking. Here’s now it happened. Last night, I bumped into Nichelle at the 5th Anniversary Cupcake Takes the Cake Party. In passing, she mentioned recently hanging out with Jessica,...

A few years ago, I met Ethan Hawke at an event where he promoted his book, Ash Wednesday. During the Q&A, I asked him: “So, you’re an actor, director and writer. Which role do you prefer and/or find most fulfilling?” I remember he said something like:...

If I’m going to have sex with a guy, I’ll ask him to slip a balloon on his dick. I use condoms. Almost always. It’s not the men, it’s me. I don’t want a baby. Or AIDS. Or crabs. Or random green shit oozing out my hooha. Once we’ve been together...

I’m still settling into my new apartment. (Don’t EVEN get me started on the ongoing kitchen table debacle!!) Anyway. Moving right along. My place is approx. 450 sq. ft., and I’m in love with Apartment Therapy. (The site helps people “make their homes...

Just a quick shout out to say thank you to everyone who reads this site, follows my freelance articles and supports my other creative projects. Before boarding my outbound flight for the holiday weekend, I received the following Thanksgiving message in...